Ok so yeah... I was thinking and stuff and things... There's a lady I work with who has got to be around her 50s and she has never been married. Now, I don't know if it's just because she wants to be single (which is totally cool if that's the case - she's wicked sweet) or it's because she just never found the right person... All my life I just figured that I would meet the right person, fall in love, get married, have a family - you know, same old same old. But it never really occurred to me: what if I never found that right person? Like, I'm not looking to get married right now or anything. I was telling someone just the other day that I like being single and that I'm figuring out alot of stuff in my life right now. But it just kind of scares me not knowing whether or not I'll find someone who will put up with me the rest of their life! And someone I'm compatible with too - and who loves football and hockey!!! I don't know... Guess that's where faith comes in eh.
posted by Jennifer at 4:25 PM
2 Comments:
Jen, I think the thought of ending up alone in this life has plagued everyone's mind at some time or another. Regardless of whether they'd like to admit it - even if they're not all romantics like some of us :-)
I guess all we can do is make the 'wait' count.
6:41 PM
Hi Jen.
I'm thinking the same as you right now and this is my plan. Sure someday I might get married and yada yada. BUT ... just think of everything you could do without a husband dragging you down... you could go travelling around the world whenever you wanted, or you could live in an excellent old victorian house and in lieu of cats (because i'm allergic) you could fill the place with aquariums and fish. I have plenty more ideas on how to live my future single life... if you ever need ideas just ask.
Anyhow -- I'll ttyl.
ashley
12:58 AM
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